Listen, people spend an abundance of time worrying about how another person views them! People will change their clothes a million times just to get the right outfit so someone can say they look good! In doing so, they end up wearing something that they aren’t even comfortable in! An example is them big ugly orthopedic looking shoes that people are paying $500+ for!
You see one has to be comfortable in ones own skin! You have to be confident and be the best version of YOU! You have to be able to look in the mirror and love what you see, you have to love what is inside of you! You will be like a dog chasing it’s own tail trying to please people! The reality is, you can’t please everyone and if your in a situation that everyone around you agrees with you, do yourself a favor and RUN because your around fake people!
The bottom line is this, don’t ask or seek the approval from people about how to be you! It’s not your problem how they view you! You don’t owe it to anyone! Be the best version of yourself and the right people will come to you!