For those couples out there, have you ever asked yourself: “If I am not paying loving attention to my partner, who is responsible for it?' So often, especially in long term relationships, couples tend to take each other for granted. I often hear people say: 'But he/she knows I love him/her!' Their life is running on autopilot. They are just managing their lives, being a team is priority, just getting through the mundane tasks of the day, often living parallel lives, too busy with external activities like their work commitments. They just assume things are Ok. Ask yourself each morning: what lovely (extra) thing can I do for my partner today to make them FEEL loved by me?
This can just be a little gesture of love, like a hug, a kiss, or a sweet text to put a smile on their face. Remember; a little gesture can mean so much!