When you settle for being like everybody else, you sacrifice making a difference. I struggled with that in my younger years because I always felt different. I was no angel and everyone knew that lol, but I never have drank, never have smoked, you w…
If you are taking the time out to read this, well, you know I have been at this a long time! I have started and stopped so many different times. I have made videos, I write, and I have been trying to write another book. I often say that when you get…
How you view God determines what you get! Some people see God as only a provider, so you have alot material things, BUT your miserable! Some people view God only as a healer, so you constantly sick so God can heal you! You see the older gener…
Sometimes when we pray to God we get upset that we don’t hear His voice back! What we must understand however, is He isn’t talking to you because he is talking to the problem! You see we sometimes we think just because we are gifted, ou…
First and foremost, I would like to apologize to the people who have visited this site and have not seen any updates! I have been a victim of the very thing that I have preached against. I was looking at numbers, and based those on what I should be …
They say the richest place in the world is the cemeteries and I know that might sound crazy but here is why! So many people take their talents to the grave without birthing them into the world. Why is that you might ask? It's simple, fear! You see …
When someone says, " I just want you to see me." They aren't talking about physically seeing them, I mean they are literally right there in front of you, what they mean is seeing their essences. Now one would think this isn't a hard thing to do but …
Many times we will find ourselves in situations and instantly blame God, the Job, loved ones, or just anyone but ourselves. Let me explain why tribulations are often a blessing. If you're a spiritual person, I am sure you have spent some time prayi…
For those couples out there, have you ever asked yourself: “If I am not paying loving attention to my partner, who is responsible for it?' So often, especially in long term relationships, couples tend to take each other for granted. I …
It is an art form to understand, acknowledge, and apologize wholeheartedly. It is hard for many people to do that, often you're more prone to find people who will go out of their way to defend, forgo responsibility, manipulate or shut down when you …
I wear it as a badge of honor that I take on the superman cape in so many different situations. I often say "God has given me broad shoulders to carry the weight," but I now understand that I have a problem. My problem is very common, and as you re…
Do you ever catch yourself finding reasons, explanations, or even analysis as to why someone did or said something that was hurtful or harmful to you (or others)? Of course there are reasons for things. There's a reason for everything and when we ca…
There are many people who when they are feeling down and out, will put on some sad music and then turn around and wonder why their mood has not changed. There are many people who when they are feeling a certain way, could be feeling sad, or could be…
Let's paint a picture, let's say you are preparing to have a conversation with your partner expressing how you feel. You spend the whole day to muster up the courage because so many times you express things tend to go left. You say your piece…
Let me paint you a picture, let's say you know someone who is a liar. I am talking about if they tell you that it's raining outside you have to go out actually to see if it is true. Now it is not that you condone them lying, BUT you accept them for …
When you realize your worth, you will stop crying over people who never deserved you in the first place.
You have to be honest with yourself, and understand that storing trauma as a means to think you are strong, is a true form of self-sabotage.
" Not speaking up on things just to keep the peace is a trauma response. When you do this, you disrespect your own boundaries. No matter what, keep taking up space and use your voice."
Stop letting your potential go to waste because you don't feel confident or ready enough. People with half your talent are making serious waves while you're still waiting to feel ready.
Investing in your partner is probably the gift that keeps giving! If it is a true partnership, when one wins, you both bask in the victory. If one fails, the other should be there to pick them up! According to a study published by researchers from C…
Often times we have this outlook that we have to work and work only! Now I shouldn't have to say this, BUT I am not advocating stopping working by any means. What I am saying though is, don't use work as an excuse! Let me explain what I mean. Often…
For many I have been silent, but for the ones that love and truly care about me I haven't. What does that mean you wonder? Well, I am probably the most antisocial, social person lol. I love to help, but when I am growing through some things I can ge…
